异地恋

异地恋是艰辛苦涩的，异地恋的维持需要双方的配合和信任，在异地恋中，要怎么维持爱情，要怎么让爱情保鲜呢？

定下一些原则、规定

yidilianyouyubunengchangchangjianmian，suoyilianrenzhijiandingyixieyuanzehuoguidingkeyizengqiangguanxi，biruyuedingmeitiandouyaojiaoliu，zhishaoliangsangeyuejianyimiandengdengneirong。

定期见面

jingchangjianmianduiyuyidiguanxideweichishifeichangzhongyaode。dinghaogezhunze，duojiujianyici，shenmeshihoujian。dinghaolerizihouyaoquebaoneitianbushourenheganrao。

尽可能每天都交流

 chenggongdeyidiguanxibufenshiyinweinenggoufangzhaozhengchangguanxidemoshi。qizhongzhiyijiushimeitiandejiaoliu。jinkenengduodiheduifangfenxiangnixianggaosutadegezhongshi，rangtajishibuzainishenbian，yeyirannenglejienideshenghuo，rangliangrendeguanxibaochiyizhongxianhuogan。

别想当然

duibicijiandeganqingyaoquexinbuyi。buyaoxiangdangranrenjiazhidaonizaixiangshenme——yaogenta/fenxiang。buguanshihaoshihuai，duinimendeganqingbunenghanhu。xiangdangranhuiduansongyidiguanxi，ermingquedejiaoliuhuishiyidiguanxizouxiangchenggong。

信赖彼此

lianaiguanxizhong，xinrenshiyiqiedejichu，yidilianzhongxinrenjiugengweizhongyao。suirantabuzaishenbian，danshiwomenjiranrendingleta，xuanzeleyutazhangqifazhanxiaqu，jiuyaoxinlaita，zheishiyidilianrenmenweichiganqingzuizhongyaodeniudai。youxinrencainengjianchi，caiyouyongqimianduixianshidejiannanhekunzu。 

制造惊喜

bunengtiantianjianmiansuoyibunengtiantianyongbaoqianshoudeqinglv，zuihaodelianqingzengwenfangshijiushijitayigejingxi。jizhutadeshengri，liangrendezhounianjinianri，qingrenjiedengyouyiyiderizi，jitasongshangtebiedeliwu，birutaxinxinnianniandebaobao、xiezi、huazhuangpin，huozheshiyidiweitadingyishulangmandexianhua，youtiaojiandehua，zaizheizhongtebiederizi，qinziqudaotashenbian，jitagelangmandejingxi。