和谐婚姻秘诀,维持和谐

很多人都说婚姻是爱情的坟墓，婚姻会消耗爱情的新鲜感，其实不然。和谐、甜蜜的婚姻需要需要经营，当你懂得婚姻的相处之道，婚姻生活会更加顺利。今天一起来看看维持婚姻和谐甜蜜的秘诀是什么？

1. 改变永远是自己     

nibunengzhiwangduifangzuochubianhua，nigaibianbulerenheren，chuleziji，danshidangnizhendegaibianlezijideyixiexingweixiguan，nihuifaxian，shenbiandeyiqiejingyesuizhifashengleweimiaodebianhua，baokuoniyuairenzhijiandeqinmiguanxi。

2.注意细节        

 yongyuanlaoji：nanrenhenvrenyoubenzhishangdebutong，qianwanyaozhanzaiduifangdexuqiushangjingyingfuqiguanxi，buyaozongnazhezijidebiaozhunquyaoqiuairen。

3.学会欣赏和赞美    

guanzhuduifangjinbuhezhidexinshangdedifangshuochulai。meigerendouxihuantinghaotingdehua，nanrenxihuantingdeshi“tahenzhongyao”、“meiyoutabuxing”zheiyanghenjitamianzidehua；

 nvrenxihuantingdeshi“nihenzhen xita”he“doutakaixindehua”，tongshizaishenghuozhong，yanjingwushiwukedebuzaikanzheduifangdeyoudian，neiyangdefuqicaishizuixingfutianmide。

4.学会倾听         

qudexianghuxinrenhexinlaiguanxideqianti。shangdijilewomenliangzhierduoheyizhangzui，jiushiyaogaosuwomenyaoshaoshuoduoting，qingtingnengrangrengandaoshufudetongshi，zhiyoujubeiqingtingnengliderencai youkenengzhaodaowentizuijiejuezhenshideyimian，yicikeyiduizhengxiayao。

ruguobujubeiqingtingnenglidefuqigoutongguanxiqishijiushi“zhengduicuo”decuowugoutongmoshi，jiashijiangqingdedifang，bushijianglidedifang，jiazhiyaoyijianglizhengduicuo，zheigejiajiuhuiyuanliwenxinhemu，jingyingjiatingqishijiushiyudaorenhewenti“meiyouduicuo，zhiyaokaolvyihouzenmegenghao”jiukeyile。zheiyiqiedeqiantishi“xuehuiqingting”。

5.化批评为评价     

zaiyouhelihuajianyideqingkuangxiacainengpingjiaduifangdebuzu。xiangyaoshuobierenbuhao，jiuyaobudaiqingxudejichuhelihuadejianyiheyijian，jichudejianyiheyijianyidingyaoshi“wuqingxude”、“kecaozuode”、“manmanlaide”；zheiyouzheiyangduifangcainengjieshounidejianyiheyijian。pipingshizhuguande，pingjiashikeguande。