第一次恋爱

很多人第一次恋爱的时候，第一次和恋人相处，很多事情都容易产生矛盾。今天，小编给第一次恋爱的你支支招~

1.buyaobaduifangdefuchudangzuolisuodangran

youxierenzaidangyijianshiqingfashengdecishuduole，renjiuhuihaobuyouyudejiangzheijianshiqingdangzuolisuodangran。ganqingzhongyeshiruci，youqishidiyicitanlianaizhongderen。dangduifangzailianaizhongchixuxingdeduinifuchu、duinihao，neimesuizhenimentanlianaideshijianyanzhang，duifangdezheixiefuchu、zheixiehaozainikanlaijiubianchenglelisuodangran。

yidannizaidiyicitanlianaizhongyoulezheiyangdexiangfa，taduinidefuchuzainikanlaijiubiandepingpingwuchangermeiyourenhezhenguizhichu，ernixianranyebuhuiyingduiduifangdefuchu、guanxin、aihuerjiyuduifangtasuoqiwangdehuiying。zaidiyicitanlianaizhongwulunchuzaigaoweihaishidiwei，shikebaochiyikeganendexin，buyaozhangzhetaaini，nijiukeyibataduinidesuoyoufuchudoudangzuoshilisuoyingdangde。yidanmouyitiantameiyouzuodaoniqidaizhongdeneiyang，neimenideqingxukendinghuiyousuobodong，erduifanggengjiaweiqu，nimenkenengyincierfashengjiliedezhengchao。

2.尊重对方的习惯

henduochulianzhisuoyishibaijiushiyinweizaimoheqigenbenjiushiyingbule，zhijiedaozhilianggerenzuihoufendaoyangbiao。duiyuhenduodiyicitanlianaiderenlaishuo，xiaoxiguanduilianaiyinggaishiwushangdayadeshiqing。

danshizheishikanrenkanqingkuangde，duiyunimenputongpengyoudexiangchulaishuo，dedequequeshimeiyourenhewentide。danduiyuzhangshijianzaiyiqixiangchudeqinglvhuozhefuqilaishuo，mouxiexiaoxiguanjiuhuichengweinimenlianaizhongdezhimingshanghai。

3.buyaoqinzhanduifangdedulikongjian

henduonvshengzaidiyicitanlianaideshihou，jiuzongshihenbudejiangduifangshouruzijidenangzhongshenzhiwanquanzhanyou，xiwangduifangdeshijiezhiyouziji，xiwangduifangdeyanjingzhikandaoziji，bujieshouduifanghaiyouchulezijizhiwaidehuodongkongjian，yidanduifangnenggouzaihebeirendejiaowangzhonghuodeyukuaixinlijiuhuifeichangbushufu。xianruganqingweijideqinglvlianaiqiuzhizhao，diyicitanlianaigairuhexiangchu？

xianruaihezaiheermengmengliedefenmizhixia，zheizhongxiangfadechanshengbingbuqiguai，danshiyaozhidaorenshishehuidongwu，yigerendeshenghuozhongbukenengzhiyouaiqing，haihuiyouqinqing、youqing，huiyoutongshi、pengyou。

bufangfangkaixinxiongjiangjinglifangzaiqitadifang，buyaolaoxiangzhezhanyongduifangdesuoyoushijian。zheiyangzhihuirangduifangzailianaizhonggandaozhixi，zhangqiyiwangnidediyicilianaikendingshiyishibaigaozhongde。